I Regret Being A Slut

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- Iâd tell her: Sex can be empowering when youâre coming from a position of healthy self-esteem. If youâre coming from a place of trauma or insecurity, casual sex wonât heal that. In fact, it might set you back and undermine any progress regarding your feelings of self-worth. If you know your value, youâre less likely to sleep with someone who doesnât value you. Cherish yourself and you will be cherished. You shouldnât have to withhold sex for a man to respect you; he should respect you regardless. Sexual empowerment has nothing to do with how many people you do or donât sleep withâit has to do with how comfortable you are in your skinâno matter your decision. Itâs not about waiting until youâre in love to have sex; itâs about making sure that first, you love yourself. Donât ignore that nagging gut instinct telling you âsexual liberationâ leaves you feeling unfulfilled. You can still be sex-positive and accept that for you, sex canât be liberated from intimacy and a meaningful relationship.